
If you have a chance listen to this Tell Me More interview with Samuel Gaines the president of a longstanding black funeral home in Fort Pierce, Florida. What he said about black life in the Jim Crow South and the role of the funeral home and director in the community struck me. In particular I noted how in the past there were no obituaries in this town for blacks and very limited death records, so the funeral director’s records provided the history. However, the sections of the interview that stayed with the most were as follows.
Gaines in talking about his generations general weariness regarding whether kind treatment by whites was genuine commented, “I guess it’s our upbringing but it’s just something in us that we are weary when we meet people. It worries me because I have grandchildren that feel as if they have been totally accepted into society.” He implied that really his grandchildren have not been accepted and are just being deceived. In a way this quotation could summarize the difference between “racial” and “post-racial” America.
In terms of economics, Gaines noticed that whereas in the past white funeral homes would not bury blacks, now they will because that is where the money is. He analyzes the situation saying, “The black family still holds funerals to something high on their list, that’s where the money is. Whites now are going for cremation, so therefore, the white funeral homes now are not getting the dollars, so therefore, if a black family walks in to them they’re going to accept that family because they want them to spend the money. So therefore, because of economics, whites now are burying anybody that comes in to them. They are our main competition.” That dynamic is great proof that the desire for profit can overcome bias. It also leads one to wonder if it is indeed true that black families are more likely to go with a full on funeral where cremation is white thing.
As I said earlier, if you get a chance to listen to the whole thing, I suggest you do so, or read the transcript.